watch your mouth

Hi Ginger....... Hey I will see Rochelle in a day or two, and I can give her the book that can answer your questions to Wil. I also thought you might like this, it will give you and idea of what we try and teach the couples we counsel. How to get God's bread, and feed each other regenerative spiritual food, rather than hearing from the devil and speaking his destructive words.



How to ruin a marriage in a few easy steps............. Your marriage to Jesus or your spouse!



When God OPENS OUR EYES to our spouse's sin, or our fellow believers sin, what we do from that point on will either SAVE OUR SOUL, or condemn our soul. Ez. 3 :18



I have seen the ruination of marriages, and families by Christians who are snacking on the children of God, eating up His children as one eats bread, and they don't realize the "food" they are eating is killing them!!! Jeremiah called these people naughty figs, so naughty they couldn't be eaten.



How many people are "pigging out," biting into the backs of others? If we don't do God's will in what we think and say, we will inherit the wind. Is. 58 talks about the blessing to those who don't speak their own words and don't think their own thoughts. A proverb says "a man shall be satisfied by the fruit of his mouth". So the question is, Do I feel satisfied after I get done talking to someone? Do I rebuke my brother out of love for his soul and so I won't look down on him? Lev. 19:17



There is a lot of biting into the backs of others going on in the church today, as in the days of old! Evil imaginations, taking up reproaches in our thoughts, whisperings towards others. We should be looking to speak the truth in love, BELIEVING WE ARE MEMBERS ONE OF ANOTHER! Speaking to edify, rebuke, reprove, with all long-suffering The bible says for good reason that we should TAKE HEED that we not bite, devour, and consume each other. How many times does someone "feed" a fellow believer to us, with no intention of going to him for loves sake, for unity's sake and we listen to them poison themselves with their words! Ez. 3 talks about the Lord setting watchmen on the wall, and I realized one day if the Lord is opening my eyes to someone's sin that I'm in relationship with and I fail to do what's right, they won't get delivered and I won't get delivered either. We all have cancer, what if the parts of our body that fight cancer decide to be indifferent to the cancer? That's how it takes over the whole body!



Jeremiah 24:2 "The Lord showed Jeremiah two baskets of figs, one very good, and one very Naughty!....That could not be eaten, because they were so evil! The meditation of our heart, the imaginations of our heart, become the ESSENCE of what we feed each other. We become either the SMELL of death, or the SMELL of life, depending on what we let go on in the meditation of our heart and with the words of our mouth. Cor.10 Paul says that we can't eat with "diabolical spirits" in the Amp, we can't eat at the devils table and at the Lords table. The devil speaks to our mind to slander and accuse God and His people. If we spend time communing with devils, drinking from their cup, eating what the devil dishes out to us in the form of accusing our brother, our "scent" won't be the "scent" of the life of Jesus! Our spirit will end up smelling like DUNG, biblically speaking! Our pretense and hypocrisy will show in our countenance. We can paint it, spray it with perfume, put all kinds of cosmetics over it, but we'll still end up with the "accuser of the brethren's" aroma and be like Cain with a fallen countenance.



How many people live with their evil imaginations against God, and against his anointed, and are unwilling to help? The Amp. version of Proverbs 24:11 says something like this, "if you see you brother ready to fall, ready to be slain, and say in your heart, I don't see this, I don't know.... God who knows what your thinking about others, and what you are doing about your thoughts, will REWARD YOU ONE DAY for WHAT YOU DID ABOUT WHAT YOU THOUGHT ABOUT OTHERS! The opposite of love is hate, (to lightly esteem), and the fruit of hatred is APATHY. It's to be totally indifferent to the other members of your body! Maybe that's why so many people think God is indifferent to them for they are indifferent to His children. How we treat and try and help the "least" in our lives, is how we really are to Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ!



Can you tell what the spirit of your words are, and how they operate in the hearts of those you speak to? Jesus said every idle word a man speaks will be held against him on the day of judgment. Our words "operate" on others and we will be rewarded one day for what we have done with our mouth, and the "spirit" we anointed other with. Jesus is coming back to deal with the world by THE SPIRIT OF HIS MOUTH. Do you even know what the spirit of your mouth is? Paul talks about the "bread" of sincerity and truth, is that what YOU feed others?



If we Love Jesus, we will feed His sheep good food, good words. A proverb says,
The lips of the righteous feed many." Your always feeding those you speak to something! Is it lies in hypocrisy, or truth in love? Many today are offended, betraying one another, lightly esteeming one another, EATING EACH OTHER FOR LUNCH! And serving God's people for lunch to others.



Ps. 14:3 says, "They are all gone aside, they are all together become filthy, there is none that doeth good, no not one. Have all the workers of iniquity no knowledge, Who eat up my people as one eats bread, and call not upon the Lord."...There they were in Great Fear...have you been tormented by fear lately? The "sinners in Zion are afraid." Fear and torment are the fruit of pride, lying, hands that shed innocent blood, those that devise evil imaginations, and who cause division.



I have seen so many marriages where the couples slander, gossip, judge to condemn rather than save others, with no intention to go to those who have offended them. They practice all the things God says He hates in Proverbs 6 with people outside their home. THEN THEY DO IT TO EACH OTHER, and what they have allowed themselves to do together towards God's children comes back to bite them, they end up secretly slandering each other in their hearts. Snacking on each other, looking down on each other and not practicing LEV.19:11-18 This is from the Aramaic version of Lev. 19, it says not to deal falsely, or to lie to each other, doing injustice in judgment, but in RIGHTEOUSNESS we should be judging our brother. We shouldn't look down on each other, but be wise and REBUKE our brother LEST WE INCUR SIN BECAUSE OF HIM!!! Same thing Ez.3 says........ we save our own soul when we love our brother enough to talk to him about his sin and not be indifferent. THIS TAKES REAL FAITH.



Are you one who has little faith in letting the Lord use you to wash the feet of others? Is your heart set in exhorting, telling the truth, admonishing, rebuking your brother? The bible says "we are the children of the light, and light exposes darkness." Or will you be among one of the many that Jesus said would be offended...and would betray their brother, and lookdown, (lightly esteem) others? Are you "feeding on ashes" in your heart towards your neighbor? Can you tell your heart is set in Self, doing your own will, rather than looking to build up your brother or sister in their most Holy faith? Can you tell the kind of apple your friend is giving you to eat? If it's poisoning them and you?



Heb 12 says the bitter only defile others. If you eat the bread of someone's bitterness, it will defile You. Are you being defiled and you don't even realize it? We need to be honest if we are "snacking on someone's back in our thoughts. "Jesus is coming back to wage war against THE ACCUSER of the brethren. I don't want to be found accusing God's people, but I will expose works of darkness, to help others out of the dark!

I want to be a Proverbs 31 woman who gets her bread from afar.... (God's words), that can be God's goodness to lead others to repentance! I have had bitter mother's and daughters slander each other to me, and I had to turn them towards the Word, and help them repent and hear from God for each other rather than the devil who was stealing, killing and destroying their relationship. He's a divide and conquer kind of devil, and that's what he'll do if we hear his voice. Jesus' sheep hear His voice to "reconcile".



We have faith for everything under the sun today, but how about having faith to speak the truth to one another in love for we are members of each other. The physical body gets cancer when the cells communicate improperly to each other. If you brother doesn't receive you, how about getting someone else involved to help? Jesus said this is how we should ESTABLISH the word of God, it's His order in relationships. We will all be rewarded one day according to what we DID about What we THOUGHT! Do we love Jesus enough to FEED His sheep? Do your hands shed innocent blood against those who are living to serve The Lord? Eps. 4 talks about speaking the truth in love so we can GROW UP, and be the BRIDE READY FOR THE BRIDE GROOM!



Are you grieving the Holy Ghost by what you say, or fail to say regarding your neighbor? Are you too PRIDEFUL to admit you don't love your brother enough to go to him, or look to establish God's word to him with 2-3 witnesses? Are you an evil whisperer because you don't pray for your brother? Are you a worker of division among Gods people, guilty of doing one of the things God hates most.........causing division? If you ask Jesus for bread, will He give you a stone? No....but the accuser will hand you stones, to stone your neighbor to death with your words! Don't be found causing division among the brethren. Fight the good fight, for unity among the brethren.....great will Jesus reward you if you have enough faith to speak the truth in love, and not hide from your own flesh!



One of the things it says in the Amp. bible about the Proverbs 31 woman is "she doesn't eat the bread of self pity." That bread was killing me, it was my steady diet from childhood. I quit eating it, and God sent several women into my life who LOVED it, they wanted to feed it to me and wanted me to feed it to them. I think I offended all my friends for refusing to eat their bread and refusing to give it to them to eat, but I knew how destructive it was, and love demanded of me that I DIDN'T EAT IT, and HELP THEM TO TURN FROM IT. I realized when I ate it, I was accusing God that My times weren't in His hands, and I didn't believe He watched over my life. I decided to take the cup of salvation can call upon the name of the Lord. I realized that the deceived women he brought into my life were nothing to fret over, but His way of carving His word in my heart that I might not sin against Him. I talked to Him about my thoughts about the women in my life. He gave me His thoughts and His words for them. It was my privilege, to feed the sheep of God HIS FOOD, and help them stop eating at the devils table, and stop drinking the devils cup.



And when we don't examine ourselves to see if we are really "in" the faith when we have communion, fellowship, we end up damning ourselves. Not discerning the Lord's body. Who is His Body but His people? And when I'm partaking of defiling demonic spirits having communion with devils in the spirit of my mind, for the devil is a liar, he doesn't abide in truth, I ended up defiling others. (I wrote another whole 4 pages about that). But this is why many are sick, weak and go to sleep! This is why relationships fail. 3/4 th's of the new testament is ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS. I think it's important to the Lord to do what Jesus said and judge righteous judgment. To save, not condemn, to wash, not to despise. It will all be revealed one day..... What did we feed the sheep? How did we wash their feet? I have seen so many "religious" families that Titus 1 talks about destroy their whole lives and families for they don't really love and they don't teach their children to love. They end up like the Creatians, liars, hurtful beasts, sowing to the wind and inheriting the whirlwind. And HE REALLY IS COMING BACK TO REWARD US ACCORDING TO WHAT WE HAVE DONE!


Subject: WATCH YOUR MOUTH


WATCH YOUR MOUTH!!

Our mouths only produce the fruit of our thoughts.
I've been having a lot of fellowship about making
God's thoughts our thoughts, and being renewed in the
spirit of our mind. The devil surely speaks to us in
our thoughts. It's his way of trying to get us to have
communion with him. That's why it's so crucial to take
our thoughts captive to the obedience of Christ. "You
can't drink from the cup of devils and the cup of God.
You can't partake of the devils table and Gods. We
need to be very careful about who's talking to us,
who's cup we are drinking. If Jesus' sheep hear His
voice, who's voice are we listening to. Who's words
are we speaking to others? God's words are Spirit and
Life? Are ours The wrong Spirit, that produce
spiritual death? We have been talking about these
things lately. We do become what we
eat....spiritually! If we take heed to the devils
voice, surely our countenance will reveal it! Jesus
said, "every inoperative word a man speaks will be
held against Him in the judgment." Our words are
operating on those around us. Just like Jesus sends
His word and heals us, the devil sends his words, in
our thoughts to destroy us and bring destruction to
those who hear us. The Lord wants us to recevie His
words (eat them) so we'll have LIFE, His life, in the
words we speak to others. Life and death are truly in
the power of the tongue. I am learning not to be a
glutton, or have an appetite for the devils danties.
i.e. fearful, unbelieving, despairing, hopeless
thoughts etc. The devil is constantly trying to wine
and dine us, to get us drunk on his cup. All our ways
will be confusing and destructive, because he speaks
to us in our mind, to kill, steal, and destroy us. I
pray we all learn to REJECT DECEPTIVE MEAT!